Author: Sarah Hyland

  • Reducing your toxic load: a gentle way to support hormones & overall health

    Reducing your toxic load: a gentle way to support hormones & overall health

    When we talk about hormones, we often jump straight to HRT, supplements, or blood tests.

    But there’s another piece of the puzzle that doesn’t get talked about enough — toxic load.

    Every day, our bodies are exposed to small amounts of chemicals from food, skincare, cleaning products, plastics, and even stress itself. Individually these exposures might seem insignificant, but collectively they can place extra strain on the body, particularly the liver, which plays a key role in hormone regulation.

    When the liver is overloaded, hormones like oestrogen may not be processed or cleared as efficiently. And during perimenopause and menopause, when hormones are already fluctuating, this can contribute to symptoms feeling louder, heavier, and harder to manage.

    The good news?

    Reducing toxic load doesn’t mean living a perfectly “clean” life. It’s about small, compassionate shifts that support your body rather than overwhelm it.

    Here are some gentle, realistic ways to begin.

    Eat organic (where you can)

    Choosing organic food can help reduce exposure to pesticides and herbicides that can interfere with hormone balance.

    If buying everything organic feels unrealistic (and for many of us, it is), focus on the “dirty dozen” — foods that tend to carry the highest pesticide residues, such as:

    • Strawberries
    • Spinach
    • Apples
    • Grapes

    Start there if budget or access is limited.

    And yes — many people swear they taste better too 😉.

    Remember: doing what you can is enough. This isn’t about perfection.

    Ditch the chemicals in personal care

    Our skin is incredibly absorbent, which means what we put on our bodies matters just as much as what we put in them.

    Many conventional products contain ingredients like:

    • Parabens
    • Phthalates
    • Sulfates

    These can act as endocrine disruptors – chemicals that interfere with hormone signaling.

    You don’t need to overhaul your bathroom overnight. Start with one product:

    • Deodorant
    • Body lotion
    • Face wash

    Check labels, choose simpler formulations, or even have a little fun making your own (hello, DIY face masks 💚).

    Small swaps add up.

    Support your liver (your hormonal workhorse)

    Your liver works tirelessly behind the scenes to process hormones, toxins, and metabolic waste. Supporting it can make a real difference to how your body copes with hormonal change.

    Foods that love your liver include:

    • Leafy greens
    • Berries
    • Cruciferous vegetables like broccoli and cauliflower
    • Turmeric

    You don’t need complicated detoxes or cleanses — your body already knows how to detox. It just needs the right nourishment and support to do its job well.

    Sweat it out (gently)

    Sweating is one of the ways the body releases toxins — and it doesn’t have to mean intense workouts.

    Think:

    • Walking
    • Gentle exercise
    • Stretching
    • Saunas (if suitable for you)

    The goal isn’t punishment. It’s movement that supports circulation, lymphatic flow, and nervous system regulation.

    If your energy is low (hello perimenopause), honor that. Even a short walk counts.

    Manage stress — it’s part of toxic load too

    This one often surprises people, but stress is a toxin.

    Chronic stress places a huge burden on the body, impacts hormone balance, and diverts energy away from detoxification and repair.

    Reducing stress might look like:

    • Yoga or gentle movement
    • Meditation or breathwork
    • Sitting with a book
    • Saying no more often
    • Doing less — unapologetically 🌸

    Nervous system support is hormonal support.

    A final gentle reminder

    Reducing toxic load isn’t about fear or restriction.

    It’s about working with your body, not against it — especially during times of hormonal transition.

    Choose one small thing.

    Let it be enough.

    And trust that these seemingly simple shifts can have a powerful ripple effect over time.

    If you’d like personalized support around hormones, perimenopause, ADHD, or understanding what your body needs right now, that’s exactly what I’m here for.

    Is your ‘stress bucket’ overflowing? Your body is designed to heal, but sometimes it just needs the right support to do its job.

    If you’re ready to move from ‘surviving’ your symptoms to thriving in your next chapter, I’m here to guide the way.

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  • Why endings are hard – and why they matter

    Why endings are hard – and why they matter

    Endings are one of the most universal human experiences, yet somehow they still catch us off guard. We know life moves in seasons… but when one comes to a close, it can feel like the ground shifts under our feet.

    And the truth is: endings are hard.

    Not because we’re weak, or dramatic, or “not coping”…

    But because endings ask us to let go.

    And letting go is one of the most tender things a human heart ever has to do.

    Letting go of the dreams we once had

    Every version of ourselves carries a dream, a hope, a picture of what our future might look like.

    An ending often means releasing the version of you who believed in that dream.

    It might be the woman who imagined her family looking a certain way.

    The mother who pictured a home full of noise forever.

    The friend who thought a relationship would last a lifetime.

    The younger self who had no clue how much she’d grow, change, or outgrow.

    Letting go of these versions of ourselves feels like a quiet grief… because in many ways, it is.

    Endings in Motherhood – the ones we don’t see coming

    There are phases of motherhood you don’t realise are “lasts” until they’re memories.

    The last time they needed your hand crossing the road.

    The last bedtime story.

    The last school run.

    The last time you were the centre of their world.

    You don’t mark them.

    You don’t prepare for them.

    You simply wake up one day and realise that season has passed — and you’re standing in a new one.

    The empty nest isn’t just about children leaving home.

    It’s the shift in identity, the re-arranging of your purpose, the moment you catch yourself wondering:

    Who am I now? What comes next?

    Losses that aren’t talked about enough

    Friendships that fade.

    Roles that change.

    Parts of you that no longer fit the life you’re living now.

    These losses don’t always come with fanfare or funerals — but they still ache.

    Grief comes in waves.

    Just when you think you’ve “moved on,” another wave rises.

    Not to drown you, but to help you process another layer.

    Grief isn’t linear.

    It’s a tide — and tides return.

    The becoming of the new you

    Here’s the part we often forget: every ending is also a beginning.

    When something falls away, it creates space.

    A space you may not have asked for, but one you will eventually fill with the next version of yourself.

    You don’t become the new you through thinking, planning, or forcing.

    You become her through doing.

    Through living.

    Through trying.

    Through allowing.

    Through moving forward, even when the path feels unfamiliar.

    The journey really is the destination — not a stepping stone to some future perfection, but the place where you gather your strength, your wisdom, your courage.

    Healing through acceptance

    Healing doesn’t mean forgetting or pretending it didn’t matter.

    Healing means allowing change to be part of your story.

    It’s recognising that life isn’t about clinging to who you were, but gently evolving into who you’re becoming.

    Acceptance isn’t passive.

    It’s powerful.

    It’s the moment you soften your grip and say:

    I’ll carry the memories, but I won’t stay frozen in them.

    Endings aren’t always bad

    Some endings are painful.

    Some are peaceful.

    Some are long overdue.

    Some are unexpected.

    But endings are not failures.

    They’re transitions.

    They’re teachers.

    They’re invitations to step into the next chapter — perhaps a chapter you couldn’t have imagined before.

    And often, when you look back, you realise that an ending was actually an opening.

    A doorway.

    A beginning in disguise.

    A space for your transition

    If you are currently standing in the space between an ending and a beginning, please know you don’t have to carry the weight of that transition alone. Sometimes, the heart needs a safe place to land while the mind figures out the “what’s next.”

    How I can support you through this season

    • The Menopause MOT: A 90-minute deep dive to help you understand the physical and emotional shifts of this transition, giving you a clear roadmap for the path ahead.
    • Holistic Healing & Reiki: For when words aren’t enough. These sessions offer a quiet space to release stored grief and settle your nervous system as you navigate change.
    • The 1:1 Empowerment Program: A dedicated partnership to help you rediscover your identity and build the confidence to step into your next chapter.
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